June 12, 2000
"The deepest secret in life, is not a process of discovery, but
a process of creation, you are not discovering yourself, but creating
yourself anew, seek therefore not to find out who you are, seek to
determine who you want to be"
~From
Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch
May
1, 2001
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; don't walk behind
me, I may not lead; walk beside me, and just be my friend."
~Albert
Camus (1913 - 1960)
May 7, 2001
"Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main
sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."
~Bertrand
Russell
July
16th 2001
"We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them."
~Kahlil
Gibran
July
23. 2001
"Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that
we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness,
that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant,
gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people
won't feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the Glory
of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone,
and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others."
~
Nelson Mandela quoting Marianne Williamson
July
30, 2001
"A human being is part of the whole called by us 'universe,'
a part limited in time and space. We experience ourselves, our thoughts,
and feelings as something separate from the rest -- a kind of optical
delusion of consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us,
restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few
people nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this
prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living
creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty."
~Albert
Einstein
Aug
13, 2001
"As soon as you concern yourself with the "good" and
"bad" of your fellows, you create an opening in your heart
for maliciousness to enter. Testing, competing with, and criticizing
others weaken and defeat you."
~Morihei
Ueshiba (founder of Aikido)
Aug 20, 2001
"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through
experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision
cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved."
~Helen
Keller
Aug 27, 2001
"The difference between living a life of passion and adventure
or living a life of pain and chaos... is in your perception."
~Harusami
Sept. 3, 2001
"When we do something out of great love rather than great expectation,
more comes back to us than we could have ever imagined."
~Anonymous
Sept. 10, 2001
To laugh is to risk appearing a fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out for another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk rejection.
To place your dreams before the crowd is to risk ridicule.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life
is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing,
has nothing, is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow,
but he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or love.
Chained by his certitudes, he is a slave.
He has forfeited his freedom.
Only a person who takes risks is free.
~Anonymous
Sept. 13, 2001
"A human being is part of the whole called by us 'universe,'
a part limited in time and space. We experience ourselves, our thoughts,
and feelings as something separate from the rest -- a kind of optical
delusion of consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us,
restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few
people nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this
prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living
creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty."
~Albert
Einstein
Sept.17, 2001
Lord,
make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred,
let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
~St. Francis of Assisi
Oct 1, 2001
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience
in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to
say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the
next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you
cannot do."
~Eleanor
Roosevelt
Oct 7, 2001
"Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life;
love
harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it."
~Martin
Luther King
Oct. 14, 2001
"Contemplate the workings of this world, listen to the words
of the wise, and take all that is good as your own. With this as your
base, open your own door to truth. Do not overlook the truth that
is right before you. Study how water flows in a valley stream, smoothly
and freely between the rocks. Also learn from the holy books and wise
people. Everything--even mountains, rivers, plants, and trees--should
be your teacher."
~Morihei
Ueshiba (founder of Aikido)
Oct. 22, 2001
The heart is a precious thing, treat it with honor and respect,
and it will believe in miracles. Bruise it, and extinguish its light.
Yet, some heart-lights never go out; no matter how many times they
are hurt, they keep coming back, never relinquishing their faith in
the one heart that will recognize and honor in return. The coldness
of solitude will draw you to the flame of love, though you fear being
burned. Never put out a light that could warm your heart and light
your darkness to help you find your way. If you find that light, embrace
it and keep it burning; lest in your harried way of repairing your
life you start a fire that extinguishes when all the kindling has
been burned. In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within
me there lay an invincible summer.
~Albert
Camus
Oct. 29, 2001
"Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of
the overcoming of it."
~Helen
Keller
Nov. 5, 2001
In this world
Hate never dispelled hate.
Only love dispels hate.
This is the law,
Ancient and inexhaustible.
You too shall pass away.
Knowing this, how can you quarrel?
~The
Buddha
Nov. 18, 2001
"We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure
for loneliness, despair, and hopelessness is love. There are many
in the world who are dying for a piece of bread, but there are many
more dying for a little love."
~Mother
Theresa
Nov. 25, 2001
If, like the lotus flower, which grows out of muddy water but remains
untouched by the mud, people engage in life without cherishing envy
or hatred, and if they live in the world not a life of self but a
life of truth, then surely joy, peace, and bliss will dwell in their
minds.
~Ashvaghosha
December 17, 2001
"An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when
we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently
in a healthy way, can we truly function within a realtionship. Two
halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship:
it take two wholes."
~Patricia
Fry
December 24, 2001
"It is a heavenly love that is free from jealousy, rich and never
harmful to the spirit. It is a deep affinity that bathes the soul
in contentment; a deep hunger for affection which, when satisfied,
fills the soul with bounty; a tenderness that creates hope without
agitating the soul, changing earth to paradise and life to a sweet
and beautiful dream."
~Khalil
Gibran
Jan. 7, 2002
"It is better to believe than to disbelieve; in so doing you
bring everything to the realm of possibility."
~Albert
Einstein
February
4, 2002
"You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him to find
it within himself."
~Galileo
February 11, 2002
"Love
anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you
want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not
even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little
luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up save in the casket or
coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket--safe, dark, motionless,
airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become
unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable."
~C.S.
Lewis
February
18, 2002
"I
am always doing that which I can not do, in order that I may learn how
to do it."
~Pablo
Picasso
February
25, 2002
"Being
unconcerned with the future, accepting of the past, and content in the
right now, is true happiness..."
~Harusami
March
4, 2002
"Look
at everything as if you were seeing it either for the first or last
time. Then your time on earth will be filled with glory."
~Betty
Smith (1904-1972) American novelist and playwright
March
11, 2002
"Our
lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
~Martin
Luther King Jr.
March
25, 2002
"We
can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness,
despair, and hopelessness is love. There are many in the world who are
dying for a piece of bread, but there are many more dying for a little
love."
~Mother
Theresa
April
1, 2002
One
thing at a time.That's all we have to do. Not two things at once, but
one thing done in peace.
One task at a time. One feeling at a time. One day at a time. One problem
at a time. One step at a time.
One pleasure at a time.
Relax. Let go of urgency. Begin calmly now. Take one thing at a time.
See how everything works out?
~Today's
Meditation~
"Today, I peacefully approach one thing at a time. When in doubt,
I will take first things first."
~ Melody Beattie ~ The
Language of Letting Go
April
8, 2002
Healing
Thoughts
Think healing thoughts.
When you feel anger or resentment, ask God to help you feel it, learn
from it, and then release it. Ask Him to bless those who you feel anger
toward.
Ask Him to bless you too.
When you feel fear, ask Him to take it from you. When you feel misery,
force gratitude. When you feel deprived, know that there is enough.
When you feel ashamed, reassure yourself that who you are is okay. You
are good enough.
When you doubt your timing or your present position in life, assure
yourself that all is well; you are right where you're meant to be. Reassure
yourself that others are too.
When you ponder the future, tell yourself that it will be good. When
you look back at the past, relinquish regrets.
When you notice problems, affirm there will be a timely solution and
a gift from the problem.
When you resist feelings or thoughts, practice acceptance. When you
feel discomfort, know it will pass. When you identify a want or a need,
tell yourself it will be met.
When you worry about those you love, ask God to protect and care for
them. When you worry about yourself, ask Him to do the same.
When you think about others, think love. When you think about yourself,
think love.
Then watch your thoughts transform reality.
~Today's
Meditation~
"Today, I will think healing thoughts."
~ Melody Beattie ~ The
Language of Letting Go
April
15, 2002
"The
important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason
for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the
mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality.
It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery
every day. Never lose a holy curiosity."
~Albert
Einstein
April 22, 2002
"A
man is a little thing while he works by and for himself; but when he
gives voice to the rules of love and justice, he is godlike."
~Ralph
Waldo Emerson
April 29, 2002
"When
men speak ill of thee, live so as nobody may believe them."
~Plato
May
6, 2002
"Many
of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief
that you can not bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain.
What you have not done is feel all you are beyond that pain."
~Kahlil
Gibran
May
13, 2002
To
receive everything, one must open one's hands and give.
~Deshimaru Taisen
May
20, 2002
Your
pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand
in the sun, so must you know pain.
~
Kahlil Gibran
May
27, 2002
"The
most important human endeavor is striving for morality in our actions.
Our inner balance and even our very existence depend on it. Only morality
in our actions can give beauty and dignity to life."
~Albert
Einstein
June
3, 2002
"You
pray in your distress and in your need; would that you might pray also
in the fullness of your joy and in your days of abundance."
~Khalil
Gibran
June
10, 2002
"He
is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are
his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and
true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy
of such devotion"
~Unknown
June
17, 2002
"To
love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply
gives you courage."
~Lao-Tzu
June
24, 2002
"In
morals, what begins in fear usually ends in wickedness; in religion,
what begins in fear usually ends in fanaticism. Fear, either as a principle
or a motive, is the beginning of all evil."
~Mrs.
Jameson
July
1, 2002
"Mistakes
are part of the dues one pays for a full life."
~Sophia
Loren
July
8, 2002
"Abandon
any hope of fruition"
"One
of the most powerful teachings of the Buddhist tradition is that as
long as you are wishing for things to change, they never will. As long
as you're wanting yourself to get better, you won't. As long as you
have an orientation toward the future, you can never just relax into
what you already have or already are."
~ Pema Chödrön
Start Where You Are
July
15, 2002
"Go
confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined.
As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler."
~Henry
David Thoreau
July
22, 2002
"Never
apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the
truth."
~Benjamin
Disraeli
July
29, 2002
"Life
shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
~Anais
Nin
August
5, 2002
"There
is no end. There is no beginning. There is only the infinite passion
of life."
~Federico
Fellini
August
12, 2002
"Love
cures people, both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."
~Dr.
Karl Menninger
August
19, 2002
"It
is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because
we do not dare that things are difficult."
~Seneca
August
26, 2002
"Do
the thing you are afraid to do and the death of fear is certain."
~
Ralph Waldo Emerson
September
2, 2002
"One
word frees us of all the weight and pain of life, that word is love."
~Sophocles
September
9, 2002
"Avoiding
danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either
a daring adventure, or nothing."
~Helen
Keller
September
16, 2002
" Time
is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love, time is eternity."
~Henry
Van Dyke
September
30, 2002
"For
one human being to love another:
that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks;
the ultimate, the last test and proof,
the work for which all other work is but preparation."
~Rainer
Maria Rilke
October
7, 2002
"Imagine
there's no heaven, it's easy if you try, no hell below us, above us
only sky, Imagine all the people, living for today. Imagine there's
no countries, it isn't hard to do, nothing to kill or die for, and no
religion too, Imagine all the people, living life in peace. You may
say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one, I hope someday you'll join
us, and the world will be as one.
Imagine
no possessions, I wonder if you can, no need for greed or hunger, a
brotherhood of man, Imagine all the people, sharing all the world. You
may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one, I hope someday you'll
join us, and the world will live as one."
~John
Lennon
October
14, 2002
"There
is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
no disease that enough love will not heal;
no door that enough love will not open;
no gulf that enough love will not bridge;
no wall that enough love will not throw down;
no sin that enough love will not redeem...
It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble;
how hopeless the outlook; how muddled the tangle; how great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.
If only you could love enough you would be
the happiest and most powerful being in the world..."
~Emmet
Fox
October
28, 2002
"Time
is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love, time is eternity."
~Henry
Van Dyke
November
11, 2002
A
man approached the gate of an unfamiliar city. As he reached the gate
a magician standing there said "Wait! You shouldn't go in there
without a weapon! Demons lurk there!"
The
man said "I need no weapon and have nothing to do with demons."
The
magician drew a sword from the sheath he held; as he drew it a frightful
demon appeared, but the magician was able to kill it with the sword.
"Now
will you take a weapon!?", he said, but the man still refused.
"Are you blind!?", said the magician, "Do you see the
sword I drew killed the demon?"
"Are
you blind?" the man responded, "Do you not see that the sword
you drew created the demon?"
And
he walked on into the city, armed only with the clarity of his mind
and being.
~Adapted
from Leonard Jacobson
Found
on The Lysistrata
Project website, please visit.
November
18, 2002
"One
should never count the years--one should instead count one's interests.
I have kept young trying never to lose my childhood sense of wonderment.
I am glad I still have a vivid curiosity about the world I live in."
~Helen
Keller
November
25, 2002
"You
cannot be grateful and bitter.
You cannot be grateful and unhappy.
You cannot be grateful and without hope.
You cannot be grateful and unloving.
So just be grateful."
~Author
Unknown
December
2, 2002
"Often
we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening
ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which
have the potential to turn a life around."
~Leo
Buscaglia
December
9, 2002
"There
is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own
brain, our own heart is our temple; my philosophy is kindness."
~The
Dalai Lama
December
16, 2002
"If
we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because
we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater."
~Unknown
December
23, 2002
"We
don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop
playing."
~George
Bernard Shaw
December
30, 2002
"There
is no remedy for love but to love more."
~Henry
David Thoreau