Dear Mazarine,
There are
times when things have moved past the point of repair, as you have
found in your marriage, and it is ok for that to happen. Sometimes
things are right for a while, and there are lessons to be learned,
and once the lessons have been learned, there is no longer a reason
for the situation to continue. Apparently, while things may have been
right for both of you when you got married, the marriage simply isn't
the right thing for you now.
You will
be much happier once you have moved on and put the marriage behind
you. Don't worry about the boys -- they are generally more resilient
than adults, and will be fine. In fact, children often pick up on
the stress and unhappiness of their parents, and it can be worse for
them if you remain in the marriage than if you leave. As long as you
and Tehmton agree to not put them in the middle of things that are
between the two of you, they will be fine.
Although
it isn't easy, you need to let go of the fears you hold right now.
You need to know that leaving the marriage is for the best, and can,
in fact, be as happy for you as you are hoping. For a while, though,
it will be difficult for you to see how that will happen, even after
you have left and begun the divorce. You will feel like things are
not moving forward for you, even though you're working to make a new
start. Rest assured that during this time of transition, there will
be many things to clear from the past and put to rest. At the same
time, there are many, many details to be taken care of so that you
can move forward. Even though you may feel at times that you're stuck
without any change or progress, the changes will be happening, and
once you're past the initial 3-4 months, you will see the positive
results.
Once you
feel that things have cleared for you, you'll recognize a peace in
your life that has been absent for a long time. Even when things are
a bit crazy for you -- taking care of the boys, juggling responsibilities
so that you can get everything done -- you will realize that this
inner peace is what keeps you going, and keeps you from getting bogged
down with all that you have to do every day. You should also recognize
a natural instinct coming in that will guide you to do whatever needs
to be done, and will help give you the courage to start your own design
business. This is a good thing for you, and as you begin to get caught
up in it, you will find that it almost has a life of its own, and
will take off naturally.
Your business
will grow as much by word of mouth as by your efforts, so don't worry
about things starting out slowly. In fact, unlike what I usually see
when I get information on new businesses, I believe that yours will
actually take off faster than most. I don't see a lengthy start-up
period here -- I see that you will be busy from the beginning, and
that it will grow quickly. As word spreads, you'll find joy in being
busy with your business and your family.
Mazarine,
things look very positive for you here, although there is a lot of
uncertainty that you will continue to feel at first. Let go of your
fears, and step out onto the path that you wish to take for your own
highest good. Trust in your own strengths and gifts, as well as the
guidance of the angels who watch over you and your children.
Many blessings
to you,
Soul2Peace :)
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