So, let me see if I get this straight. You think that maybe you haven't
fulfilled your destiny yet with this man, that maybe there is more
to it than friendship. I think you are right! First of all, chance
meetings are actually not by chance. They always happen for a reason,
even if you can't quite figure out that reason at the time. This was
obviously meant to be!
Having
said that, I'm not saying you should go run off with him to somewhere
exotic and abandon the life you're leading now. You do, however, have
some choices to make. You say you are in a relationship right now.
Is this a happy union? If not for this man who has suddenly re-entered
the picture, would you be as happy and not want for anything? Or have
you always felt like something was lacking in the relationship, maybe
even something you couldn't really put your finger on? Quite possibly,
this man may have been placed in your life at this particular moment
to get you thinking about what you really want and need in a relationship,
and in life in general. That could be his only purpose, but then again,
there could be more to it. My personal feeling about this is that
he too is still reeling from this encounter. He sees you everywhere
he goes now and it's driving him absolutely bonkers! Should I call,
should I not call, I have committments, so does she, what shall I
do?! I'll tell you one thing, somebody had better do something and
fast because you both will just keep playing that guessing game if
not!
Now,
I must tell you again that I am in no way telling that you should
abandon the life you've built and take off for a new fantasy life
(as tempting as that sounds!). All I'm saying is, explore your options.
Why not ask him to meet you for coffee, just to catch up like old
friends? No expectations, just seeing how his life has treated him.
Try to settle on a time and place where you willl both feel comfortable
without being too settled into his area or yours, try a neutral position,
maybe somewhere halfway between your neighborhood and his. Please
do not get all caught up in those questions like, "Is this wrong,
am I cheating?" All you are doing is having coffee with an old
chum, there is nothing to feel guilty about. Obviously this man invokes
excitement in you, and yes, the temptation could seem overwhelming.
But, this is your life. If you feel that you are truly unfulfilled
with the way your life is going now, seeing him once more may be what
motivates you to make positive, healing changes in your life. Then
again, maybe seeing him once more will have the opposite effect and
you may walk away thinking it was nice to see him but you're happy
right where you are. It could even solidify your current committment
even more.
One
thing I do know is this: curiosity killed the cat! And the more you
both secretly wish to meet again, the more it will eat away at you
until you just can't stand it anymore. So, go ahead, call him, see
what transpires. But please do your best to avoid any needless suffering
on your families, as well as yourselves. Your lives are at stake here,
so take nothing lightly. Do try to remember one thing: If you are
unfulfilled in your relationship, chances are your partner is too.
To release someone you are not happy with will only open you both
up to receive your true, divine partners. Do not make yourself feel
guilty for wanting true happiness; just make sure that it's also important
to you that the close people in your life deserve it too!
Acting
as an instrument of the divine light means having the best intentions
for everyone's happiness, including your own! I find that this is
always the best way to approach life!
Best
wishes, and please let us know how it works out for you!
Soul2Paula
