Forgive me in advance for the length of this question.

Last year I started having recurring dreams about a woman I knew 15 years ago. She was married and we had a platonic relationship that bordered on romantic. I broke it off after 2 long years due to frustration. After the series of dreams, I wrote to her. My first attempt got no response. In my second attempt, I was a bit more open with my feelings. I received a phone message from her saying that her life was busy but she would get back to me. I did some research and found out that she has been divorced for quite some time but she had been seeing someone for about a year. I have not heard from her since the phone call (many months ago). Obviously, I felt a great deal for her but I do not want to hold on to unrequited feelings. I am still wondering why she said she would get back to me? She could have easily told me to go away or ignored me altogether.

My question is simply... Will she ever contact me in a more meaningful fashion?

Thanks in advance,
Joseph

Hi Joseph,

Thank you for the opportunity to read for you.

It appears that the dreams you were having were based in your feelings for your friend, coming back to the surface to be dealt with. I also get the impression that she was thinking of you from time to time at about the same point, which created a connection that added to your memories and feelings, resulting in the recurring dreams.

You are very aware of what you are feeling for her, but I don't think that she is quite so clear on what she feels for you. She has been quite busy -- that was not just a line to put you off. She simply has not taken the time to determine what she feels, or whether she wants to pursue anything with you again.

She did intend to call you back when she had some free time, but whenever she had thought about it, it wasn't a good time, or she simply didn't have enough time to spend on a conversation with you. As several months have passed, she became uncertain about whether to call you after all this time. She may feel a little guilty about not having called you sooner, after saying she would. The best thing to do at this point would be to give her a call one evening, and hopefully reach her with time to catch up with you.

There is no reason not to let her know that you still have some fairly strong feelings for her when you talk to her, but you may need to give her a little time to consider her own feelings. I do feel that there is a good chance that a romantic relationship will come out of this. Rekindle the friendship, and then see where it leads. It's just too soon to give up without one more try. ;)

Best wishes to you!
Peace

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