Hello Nancy,
Thank you for writing and giving me the opportunity to read for you.
You and
Bob do have several past lives in common, which usually creates a
strong connection and strong feelings in the current lifetime. Those
feelings, of course, will depend upon whether you had positive or
negative experiences in the other lifetimes. In your case, your experiences
were primarily positive, including loving relationships whose feelings
carry over into the present.
There is
also, in your case, a sense of nostalgia because of the time you were
together as teenagers. Your relationship was easier than the relationships
either of you has now, partly because you didn't have to deal with
all the things adults have to face.
You are
wise to keep things at a friendship level right now, while you're
committed to other partners. Your friendship is very special, and
will remain that way for as long as you'd like for it to. I don't
think it would be wise at this point to take it past friendship. You
need to explore these feelings a bit more, keeping them independent
of your current relationship.
Your current
relationship must also be looked at based on its own merits and the
feelings between you. Be objective when you consider your marriage,
rather than comparing what you have to what you might have with Bob,
because that would be speculation anyway. If you would not have left
your marriage if Bob were not in the picture, then it probably isn't
wise to leave just because he is in your life now.
You also
must realize that Bob will have to think about things on his side
as well, especially given the fact that he has children to consider.
I feel that neither of you are quite ready to leave what you have
in order to take a chance and be together at this time. However, if
you were both free at some point in the future, the feelings are strong
enough that it would be worth pursuing to find out if you can recapture
what you had when you were younger. I just don't get the feeling that
now is the right time for either of you to pursue a relationship with
each other.
One thing
you don't have to worry about -- neither of you will stop caring about
the other. The friendship is always going to be there for as long
as you want it to be. There will be many lessons to learn through
this friendship, including being able to put your feelings into the
proper perspective. For now, it is simply meant to be enjoyed, and
not taken past friendship.
Again,
thank you for the opportunity to read for you, and I hope I have been
able to help!
Blessings,
Soul2Peace
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