Hello
My name is Fania, birth date: 26 June 19xx, in Iran, 7 am.
Question:Will my boy friend called Jamshid come to a reconciliation with me,and tell me " I love you"again? His birth date: 8 April 19xx, Iran, 11am.
Thank you very much for your consideration.
God bless you
Fania

 

Fania,

Hello, my name is Daniel. I am a psychic and reader. Should you wish to know more about me you may check my web site: www.danmazzeo.com

Here is my answer to your question.

First, let me talk about Jamshid. He is a little older and has not had what he wants in life from love and relationships. He is now smart enough - so to speak - to know how to get what he wants but it is not real love that he wants, in the sense that you want real love - he has given up on that. He is using you for the pleasures of love without considering the need for committment or caring for you and for who you are. He believes - and has seen how - relationships are too often used as a means to control men like him in order for a spouse to control him and get what they need and he has decided that it is not worth it and it is time to just take what he wants and fake the rest. For this reason he tells you that he loves you and although he feels some love, it is not a very deep rooted type of love. He tells you he loves you because he knows it will open your heart and make you give him what he wants.

Now about you - Your relationship with Jamshid is best seen as one in which you learn about love and about how you view and interact with it. It would be best if you began to learn from this relationship what love is versus what you think and believe it is. Mostly, you Fanin have learned an incorrect idea of what love is - simply put, you equate your emotional needs with love and then once you love somebody, it means that they are supposed to meet those emotional needs - hence, you need Jamshid to return to telling you he loves you - at that point all would be alright in your world. But love is not need. Your job in life at this time is to begin to separate the two things - love and emotional need - into their own separate things - not an easy task in your corner of the world where few people understand this concept. I suggest you look for things to read in magazines, books etc., that talk about these concepts - they can be life changing and very, very good over time. Good Luck!

Sincerely,
Daniel

 

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