Hello,
I was born in Indiana on Nov. 26, xx. at 4:40 am. It seems that my 'soul mate' is not a real person at all but a spirit guide. I am more comfortable and trusting of him, than 'real' people. (I don't have a lot of trust for people anyway) Is this possible, to have a spirit guide be your 'soul mate', or is this just a way of not getting involved; or to escape having to work at 'real' relationships?
NuNu

 

Hello NuNu,

We have many soul mates, both on this earth plane and in the spiritual realm. Be comforted and guided by your soul mate on the other side.

Your question tells me that there is an inner "longing" in your life, and this distrust of "real" people is a challenge from which you are to heal from. All relationships are "real," but the challenge is in integrating our spiritual world with the mundane. It is often easier to escape into the realm of spirit, a place where love and acceptance is the norm. The harsh "reality" of our human existence can be anxiety-ridden and painful, it can also be joyous and inspiring. The "work" you do at joining in life fully and accepting the joy and pain that you'll no doubt experience from it, is soul-expanding and fulfilling. Life is about risks and perils, and becoming our own "heroes" in the adventure.

Your cards tell me that you are one to be lost in your own thoughts, one who trusts in the inner voice and is quite content in this solitude of soul. There is a strong desire to create in your life now that you seem to be at a crossroads with, perhaps a desire to create in music, art or writing, or to create children. You've been breaking free from some societal, cultural or family restraint and enjoying the new found freedom. There is a message to participate more fully in the world and to expand your personal space to embrace a larger group. Join with others of a like mind and heart to pursue your life purpose and learn to trust.

There is fear in losing your personal space, and the comforting "routine" of life you currently enjoy.... You are one who enjoys life's simple pleasures, this is a blessing!

I see you are also in a swirl of change, and balanced between the fear of letting go of the past and leaping full-force into the future. The pain of the past can be like shackles chaining us to outmoded beliefs or patterns of self-defeating behavior.

You are listening to your inner guidance and will begin to see "outside" the box that you had created as a much needed fortress in the past. The final message is to "let go," and I believe this means to let go of the pain and distrust of the past, and to experience life without fear.

Yes, it is very possible to have a spirit guide "soul mate," but don't let that stop you from experiencing the love of a human on this earth plane. Allow all, and let the Creator be your guide. Your spirit guide will be there to comfort you and to help you love more fully. There is no need to "escape" from real relationships, join in them fully knowing that your soul expands with each connection, and in connection we learn the true "Oneness" of us all.

I hope this has been of help to you, thank you for allowing me to read for you. Wishing you much joy on your journey.

Blessings of peace, love & light,
Soul2Harusami

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