Dear
Patricia,
Hello and welcome to Soul2Soul.
Initially there appear to be a few differences between David and yourself,
including a differing approach to life, challenges and relationships.
It is wise to take these into consideration.
Let's start with the good news, yes, I feel that you have a shot at
this, and a lot of potential for this relationship being a long term
one.
However, there do appear to be quite a few differences between you
as people. These, are not bad things they simply are and understanding
them leads to a greater understanding of each other.
You feel like quite a dynamic and energetic person, with a lot of
vision and fire and like to tackle your goals head on. David on the
other hand feels to me like he is much more quiet and reserved. While
you like to rush into new challenges/opportunities head on, he seems
to prefer to sit on the sidelines and wait to see how situations play
out. He doesn't feel impulsive, and in fact appears to be fairly inward
looking and very patient.
David does not seem to be entirely in touch with his feelings... my
sense of this is that he is entering into a period of transition concerning
relationships in general and is stuck in some waiting time, where
he is almost suspended in space while he contemplates possibilities.
In his feelings for you, I'd say he is somewhat neural but leaning
towards positive. I believe he is or soon will be pleasantly surprised
and flattered by the possibility of you but at the moment is not ready
to actively pursue anything, simply prefers to sit back and wait.
Look at the possibilities with leisure.
This basic difference in energy dynamics can be a stumbling block
with any relationship between you two so it is wise to keep it in
mind. David feels more introvert, internal and passive. You on the
other hand seem active, dynamic and impulsive.
It is therefore less likely that David would take the initiative with
approaching you, and you I feel will need to be the primary motivator
for this relationship. You can profit from each other by being open
to each other's qualities: it would not hurt if he became slightly
more dynamic, and you might profit form a slowing down, and being
still from time to time. :)
A negative aspect of this is becoming irritated by each other's differences
and you becoming frustrated by his seeming lack of activity.
At the moment the relationships feels quite 'nascent' and the thing
I am picking up most strongly is simply a sense of possibilities and
that the groundwork has been laid. You do need to have patience...
I would say don't think about this too much because you will only
drive yourself mad. This is not a man to reveal much of himself or
decide on what he feels easily. You are best to simply realize that
there is a lot of potential for this relationship and don't allow
yourself to be swept over by frustration.
Ultimately, I feel that you will achieve your goals and get what you
want, so don't become discouraged over temporary setbacks. I believe
it will also be helpful to you to stay focused on your desires without
overanalyzing them or dwelling on the disappointment of his seeming
lack of motivation. :)
There seems a lot of passion here, but for this relationship to happen
or survive it needs to be tempered with a willingness and ability
to work on harmonizing your differences and not becoming discouraged/frustrated
over the short term.
There are good things in store here, and better things in potential...but
events have their own pace and rarely follow the agendas that we would
set for them.
I hope this has been helpful to you and I wish you the best of luck
on your journey and please feel free to let us know how you get on.
Blessed Be.
Namaste
Soul2Moon
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