Candida
4.55am London, UK
14th July 19xx

I have lived so long with no permanent job, home or relationship. I feel lost & unclear what I need to do with my life. Is this how my life is meant to be? Is there such a person as a free spirit, or am I just avoiding commitment? How can I create some stability & security in my life?

Stability and security come from within. The “Perfect Job” can be lost due to downsizing, the greatest love may not last forever. Not everyone is meant to experience a predictable life. All souls are at different stages of evolution and growth and what each soul requires for optimal learning experiences varies widely. Some individuals require a vast array of experiences for their evolution to progress.

Do you feel comfortable in your own skin? Not because of what your doing or getting approval or disapproval for. A caring and compassionate heart can contribute more to the world than a pile of bank notes.

You can make a commitment to yourself everyday as you carry out your day to day routines. That may mean honoring your agreement to yourself to eat only healthy foods and stick to an exercise plan even on the days your enthusiasm is waning and everything seems like too much trouble. It is the little steps taken each day that ultimately lead us down the best path. Consistency and “Flexible” structure also would bring a sense of security.

What are your passions? Do you do something each day that feels like play instead of work? Are you able to meet all of your financial obligations? Look around, I'm sure you know others who own homes and are part of a couple – but these circumstances are no guarantee of happiness or success because it is basing our happiness on external factors.

I would suggest writing down 3 things that you feel you excel in – baking cookies, organizing or being a good listener. To find our true life's calling means looking within. Not defining what is acceptable or appropriate by the standards set by our family or society.

I sense that you are interested in so many different areas that it is difficult for you to stay focused on any singular pursuit. Like a child who is afraid to close their eyes to sleep in case they might miss something. Just know that there is nothing wrong with you, from my perspective you are right on track.

If you knew you would be on this Earth only one more month, how would you spend your time? What do you yearn for, what mark would you like to leave, how would you like to be remembered?

I would like to suggest cultivating your intuition, the ability to obtain information from within as opposed to having something concrete to base decisions upon. The mind can become overloaded and distracted when it has too many facts.

Often times, when we have experienced a tremendous growth period, we need to make adjustments in every part of our life – with our friends, lovers and family. When we grow but those around us do not or are afraid of the changes that are part of growth, we often have to leave them behind and align ourselves with others who are more compatible. Unfortunately, this does not generally happen overnight. I hope this information is of benefit to you.

May all your hearts desires manifest.
Ansara

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